Online, worldwide. Available for in-person guided disclosure by arrangement.
The next, the floor fell out from under you.
One moment, your life made sense.
Can I ever feel safe again? How could I not have known? Is my marriage or relationship over? Am I foolish for staying? Will this destroy my children?
Maybe you've tried to talk to a friend, a pastor, or a therapist and walked away feeling more confused, more alone, or more ashamed than before.
The racing thoughts. The inability to make even simple decisions. The physical feeling of dread that won't let up.
And now you're asking yourself...
You are not crazy for asking these questions.
BETRAYAL SHAKES THE FOUNDATION OF EVERYTHING YOU THOUGHT WAS REAL.
Most women come to me focused on him. On the marriage or relationship. On fixing what broke — What they discover is that the most important work starts with themselves.
"I can't promise you your relationship will survive.
But I promise YOU can.
If you invest in yourself and do the work of healing, you will not just survive. You will heal. Your story isn't over yet."
- Linda Wajda
I started this work because someone once reached down and helped me climb when I couldn't hold on myself. I know what it means to have your world fall apart. To question everything you thought was real. To fight to trust your own perception again.
Hello, I’m Linda
Someone once extended her hand to me. Now I get to do the same for you.
The women who work their way through this don't just survive it. They come out the other side with something many people never create: a life they consciously chose. Built on truth. On self-trust. On knowing exactly who they are and what they will and won't accept.
That is what's possible for you.
I often picture a ladder of women, each one extending a hand to help the next, up and out of the darkness.
You don’t have to explain to me why you’re right. I believe you.
This is where most women begin.
One on one, trauma-focused coaching to help you find your footing, make sense of what happened, and figure out what you actually want for your life.
1:1 BETRAYED PARTNER COACHING
Think of me as your first call. I know this field inside and out, and I'll help you figure out exactly what you need and who you need on your team.
One of the most reparative milestones in betrayal healing. As one of a small number of Certified Disclosure Guide Coaches in this field, I prepare you fully for this process and walk with you through every step of it.
GUIDED DISCLOSURE
For couples committed to exploring repair together after betrayal. Trauma-aware, structured guidance that supports repair, safety, honesty, trust, and helps you start building what Marriage 2.0 actually looks like for you.
COUPLES COACHING
Come talk to me anyway. I have an extensive network of specialists supporting every area of betrayal recovery, and I would love to help you find exactly the right support for where you are. There is no wrong reason to reach out.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGURE OUT WHERE TO START.
NOT SURE ANY OF THESE ARE QUITE RIGHT FOR YOU?
That's what I'm here for
THAT IS WHAT I’M TRAINED TO PROVIDE.
My work is grounded in evidence-based, best practices for trauma healing, structured recovery processes, and nervous system regulation. Not because those are buzzwords, but because this kind of relational trauma is confusing, isolating, and exhausting. Untreated, it lives in your body and can lead to real health consequences. It hijacks your ability to think clearly, to function well, and enjoy your life.
Not every therapist or coach is trained to support betrayal trauma. And the wrong support, as many women who find me have already discovered, can leave you feeling more confused and more alone than before.
This kind of trauma requires a very particular kind of care to heal from.
This kind of pain requires specialized care.
"When my reality was turned upside down and I didn’t know what to believe, Linda grounded me, gave me perspective, and ultimately gave me back my ability to trust my own judgement.”
“I’ve moved through something I thought would kill me and came out the other side stronger and happier than ever.”
“Linda is so safe and compassionate. Having her to help me through the first months after discovery was truly a game changer.”
